In this online dating world ghosting is a common thing you come across of whether you’ve been ghosting or have been the one ghosted. You can spend a lot time with someone and start liking them and they completely disappear. I’ve felt the feelings for ghosting from both sides and it sucks. So what should […]
5 Ways to Start a Conversation when Dating Online
As I match with guys on dating apps to find a date for my 50 Dates in 50 States journey, I get a range of messages. Most first messages don’t lead to a great conversation. They usually start with a compliment or a basic ‘How are you.’ When I have multiple matches it’s work to […]
5 Lessons ‘The Bachelor’ Teaches You
So my guilty pleasure is definitely the reality TV show The Bachelor/Bachelorette. While it may not be complete reality and little unconventional it has work for some couples. While this show does not have a 100% success rate, I believe there are a few dating lessons you can learn from the show. 1. DATE MULTIPLE PEOPLE […]
Striving for Perfection in the Dating World
Sometime last year, my coworker said “I can’t wait to see who you end up married to…” a couple hours later a friend makes a similar comment. This day was pretty great just being told this, but the conversation with my friend turned into a different one. He continued to discuss my great qualities like […]
What if You Knew How Long Your Relationship Would Last?
What if you knew the person you’re dating right now is the person you’re going to marry? What if you knew the person you’re dating was going to break up with you next week. What if you knew your relationship wasn’t really over with your ex? Would life be a lot easier if you knew […]
What’s On Your List?
Thanksgiving weekend I watched Nobody’s Fool. In my opinion, it wasn’t the best movie, but I liked the concept of it. If you haven’t watched it’s basically about this girl that has a relationship with a guy that is everything that she has on her Dream Guy List. And then there’s another guy that is […]
Dating with Social Anxiety
Colorado – Part 3 of 3 So as I mentioned in a previous post, I had a date planned with Robert. Unfortunately, he has a heart problem and the week of our date he was put under observation. To be on the safe side we decided not to drive 100+ miles away to go to the hot […]
3 Reasons You Should Take a Roadtrip by Yourself
Colorado – Part 2 of 3 Read Part 1 I woke up around 7 am on my second day in Colorado. I called my Dad and replied to the sweet message Ralph sent last night. Although my plans were changed with Robert I still wanted to visit a Hot Springs in Colorado. Even if I […]
How to Get a Date in 24 Hours
Colorado – Part 1 of 3 To say the least, my trip to Colorado did not go as planned. I had a date planned with Robert, a guy I was talking to since I started asking for people to apply to my 50 Dates in 50 States ordeal. He had plans set for us to […]
Serendipity Before Colorado
Soooo…my first date/state is this weekend! This feat is ambitious, but I’m excited to stop talking about it and put it into action. Starting this blog took a lot of courage for me. I’m pretty open about my life with my friends, but to give anyone access to read about it is pretty scary. […]